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HOW ARE GIRLS TREATED ON SOCIAL MEDIA

WE HAVE HEARD MANY SLOGANS REGARDING GIRLS SAFETY LIKE GIRLS ARE PEARLS, SAVE THEM; BETI BACHAO, BETI PADHAO; PROTECT THE GIRL CHILD ..AND WHAT NOT. THERE ARE TONS OF SLOGANS, ARTICLES, AND QUOTES ON GIRLS SAFETY AND PROTECTION. BUT DO THEY REALLY ADD SOME VALUE AND ETHICS TO OUR SOCIETY? WILL OUR SOCIETIES PERCEPTION CHANGE OR HAVE CHANGED AFTER SEEING OR LISTENING TO THOSE SLOGANS? ARE WE REALLY  PROGRESSING TOWARDS A SAFER ENVIRONMENT FOR GIRLS AS A  SOCIETY? THINK YOURSELF!!

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WE OFTEN  TALK ABOUT RAPE AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THAT A GIRL FACES AND... HOW DOES IT  AFFECT A GIRL MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY...... INDIA IS REALLY NOT A SAFE PLACE FOR GIRLS ... THEY ARE MOLESTED WHEN THEY GO OUT OF THEIR HOMES AND EVEN HARASSED IN THEIR OWN HOUSES(DOMESTIC VIOLENCE). WE ALL THINK THAT A GIRL FACES THESE MANY PROBLEMS AND ALSO FEELS SORRY FOR HER ...BUT MY FRIEND THESE MOLESTATIONS AND HARASSMENT DO NOT END UP HERE ... IF YOU WANT TO KNOW THE WHOLE  SCENARIO THEN GO AND CHECK A GIRL'S INSTA, FB OR ANY SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNT ..YOU WILL GET TO KNOW HOW THESE GIRLS ARE TROLLED AND HARRASSESD ON SOCIAL MEDIA...RANDOM MALES OF ANY RANDOM AGE GROUP... THEY  COULD BE OF AGE GROUP  OF 14 TO 25 AND EVEN 30 TO 60 ...AGE DOESNT MATTER HERE..... THEY CAN BE FOUND IN ALMOST EVERY GIRLS DM(IG) AND MESSENGER(FB). THERE ARE TONS OF RUBBISH MESSAGES LIKE...HELLO BABY, BABU, LUV U... BLAH BLAH!!.

AND CAN YOU EVEN IMAGINE WHAT A GIRL GOES THROUGH WHEN SHE READ THESE MESSAGES, HOW SHE FEELS AFTER BEING CALLED A SLUT ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND HOW SHE FEELS AFTER BEING HARASSED SO MUCH ON SOCIAL MEDIA... AND IN EXTREME CASES THOSE BASTARD MALES EVEN SEND THEIR PHOTOS( PRIVATE) AND ASK FOR THEIRS IN RETURN ...CAN YOU FEEL IT GUYS?? AND TO BE HONEST, IF YOU ARE FEELING FRUSTRATED AFTER READING... WHAT'S ACTUALLY HAPPENING OUT THERE ON SOCIAL MEDIA THEN BELIEVE ME A GIRL IS 100 TIMES MORE FRUSTRATED WHEN SHE DEALS ALL THIS SHIT...AND EVEN SOME SENSITIVE COMMITTEGIRLS OUT THERE. COMMITS SUICIDE OUT OF  DEPRESSION AND HARASSMENT ..THIS IS REALLY EXTREME!!

KOLKATA - CYBER BULLYING HAS SNUFFED OUT YET ANOTHER LIFE.A 17 YEAR OLD SCHOOL-GIRL  COMMITTED SUICIDE AFTER ONE OF HER FRIENDS UPLOADED A MORPHED PICTURE OF HER ON A SOCIAL NETWORKING SITE.
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LEMME TELL YOU ONE THING .. ON AN AVERAGE A BOY HAS AROUND 400 TO 500 FOLLOWERS ON IG AND ON AN AVERAGE A GIRLS IG ACCOUNT HAVE 800 TO 900  PENDING FOLLOW REQUEST  ..YOU KNOW WHY? .JUST BECAUSE SHE IS A GIRL..NO THEY DONT FOLLOW HER BECAUSE THEY ADMIRE HER (IN MOST OF THE CASES)...THEY FOLLOW HER BECAUSE THEY WANT TO REACH OUT TO HER AND TALK SHIT!!

GIRLS ARE BEING MENTALLY TORTURED  ON SOCIAL MEDIA ...AND BELIEVE ME ITS VERY IRRITATING TO DEAL WITH ALL THESE SHIT!!
AND BECAUSE OF THE FEAR OF ALL THIS ...MANY GIRLS DONT SHW UPON MANY SOCIAL MEDIA  PLATFORMS ... AMONG ALL THESE THRE ARE ALSO SOME GIRLS WHO ACTUALLY POSTS THEIR PHOTOS ON SOCIAL MEDIA JUST TO GET MORE AND MORE FOLLOWERS( PHOTOS THAT SHOULD NOT BE UPLOADED ON SOCIAL PLATFORMS) .. I DONT KNOW WHY THEY DO THIS AND WHY DO THEY WANT SO MUCH ATTENTION BECAUSE GETTING 1000 TO 2000 FOLLOWERS ON SOCIAL MEDIA WILL NOT MAKE YOU A CELEBRITY!!

A GIRL RECEIVES A LOT OF THESE SHITTY STUFFS IN ONE DAY LIKE SEE IN THE PIC BELOW ..THESE ARE DESPERATE BOYS WHO JUST WANT TO TALK...GET HER NUMBER...AND DO ALL THOSE  FUCKIN THINGS!!





THIS IS JUST A DEMO OF WHAT REALLY HAPPENS OUT THERE THE MAIN PART IS MORE HORRIFYING AND DISTURBING!! SO NOW YOU CAN IMAGINE HOW MUCH A GIRL HAVE TO DEAL WITH ALL THESE SHITS IN HER LIFETIME.

SUPPOSE YOU UPLOADED A PHOTO ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA AND AS YOU WOKE UP THE NEXT MORNING THERE ARE TONS OF COMMENTS ON YOUR POST...YOU ARE HAPPY TO SEE THOSE COMMENTS NOTIFICATION AND THEN YOU ACTUALLY CHECKS THOSE COMMENTS AND WHAT YOU SEE IS ...THAT THERE ARE SOME  ABSURD AND IRRELEVANT COMMENTS...AND JUST THOSE COMMENTS ARE ENOUGH TO MAKE YOU FEEL UNEASY AND SAD THE WHOLE DAY !!

HOW WILL YOU FEEL? JUST IMAGINE...THAT'S HOW A GIRL FEELS AFTER UPLOADING HER PIC... ON ANY SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNT


SEE I AM NOT TARGETING ALL THE BOYS ...AM JUST TALKING ABOUT THOSE WHO DO THESE SHITS !! THE ONE WHO REALLY CARES FOR THEM AND RESPECTS THEM WOULD NEVER DO ALL THIS NONSENSE ...THEY WILL RATHER STAND AGAINST IT!!

ALL THE THING THAT I WROTE ABOVE ARE JUST  MY FEELINGS...AS A BROTHER... A FRIEND AND SOMEONE'S  BEST FRIEND!! EVEN I DO NOT KNOW  WHAT IS THE WHOLE SCENARIO OUT THERE BECAUSE OF WHICH  I MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO EXPRESS THE REAL FEELING OF THOSE GIRLS  TO YOU ALL!! BUT I AM SURE THAT I HAVE CLEARED ALMOST 95 PERCENT  OF THE SITUATION TO YOU ALL!!


SO, AT LAST, I WOULD JUST LIKE TO SAY THAT... TAKE STAND FOR YOUR SISTER OR YOUR FEMALE  FRIENDS AND  SEE WHO ARE THE BOYS THAT TEXTS... OR POSTS ABSURD  COMMENTS ON HER PIC  ..AND THE REST YOU KNOW MY BOYS ... WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO...🔥🔥🔥


STAY HOME!
STAY SAFE!


BY-Saijashi Upadhyay








Comments

  1. Shubhi12 August 2020 at 21:14

    This!😻

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  2. Archana Patel26 January 2021 at 23:57

    Try to reach the root of the concern..don’t just stick to the outer review.. :)

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